Masculinity Mentor
Reconnect with your masculine energy and awaken the Hero within.
Masculinity Mentor
Reconnect with your masculine energy and awaken the Hero within.
Most successful people attribute their success to overcoming some kind of hardship in their youth. Either they were extremely poor, came from a broken home, or something traumatic happened to them. And consequently they were driven to overcome this adversity and make it out.My story, however, is the complete opposite...
I grew up surrounded by love and support. My father provided for us, my Mother nurtured us, and my brother and I shared a room for most of our childhood. Together, we were as close as a family could be.I never faced extreme hardship that pushed me to escape my situation, but my family also wasn’t wealthy enough for me to be carefree about my future. We were just existing in the middle class, keeping up with the joneses like everyone else.The main danger here was the complacency that resulted from just the right amount of comfort. This gave our family no reason to strive for anything more, which eventually led to poor health and a mediocre lifestyle, causing us to abandon our dreams.
2019
the catalyst
When I was 20 years old I found myself on a train to Exeter, leaving home to become a Royal Marine. I was now looking out for myself and my own future…A couple of months into training, I found myself watching the sunset over the assault course, reflecting on what my family had become.My Mother was overweight, my Father was trapped in the corporate 9-5, and my brother was on the other side of the country studying sports journalism at university.In that moment I saw my families future… My parents were going to struggle for the rest of their lives for no good reason, my brother and I would drift apart and forget about each other, and I was going to lose everything that I had held dear to me my whole life. My family.
I realised that after all the love and support I had from my parents growing up, I had just left them to suffer back home while I went gallivanting in the marines.I could see clearly that as things were, none of them had a bright future ahead of them and no one was coming to save them.I decided right there that enough was enough. I would not abandon my family.I knew I was resourceful enough to figure out a way to turn everyone’s lives around, even if they didn’t know it yet. So I left the marines, moved back home and got to work.In the months that followed, I had strategically broken down every aspect of our lives and devised a plan that would take us out of the middle class bubble and allow us all to thrive.
2020 - present
thriving & giving back
That time together was a catalyst. I convinced our family to commit to a shared vision for our future.By the end of 2020 we sold everything—our cars, house, possessions—and made the bold decision to move to a new country, ready to start fresh.It wasn't all plain sailing to say the least, but four years later and I am proud to say that my family is now thriving in Montenegro.My Brother and I have an unbreakable bond, my Father works from his laptop, with one of the most beautiful views in the world as his backdrop, and my beautiful Mother is her healthiest, most highest vibrational self.Our story is far from over, but now that I’ve set things in motion for my family, I have the opportunity to share my strategic insight with the rest of the world…
More things about me:
I sleep on the floor
I've taken cold showers everyday for 3 years straight
I have a passion for beauty
I've competed in MMA internationally
I live an all-natural lifestyle
I found how to connect with my soul when I learned salsa dancing
Simplifying and seeing the big picture are two of my biggest strengths
I get called "intense" a lot
I teach all of those who are prepared to listen.
Many Men today have lost touch with their masculine energy—the inner fire that fuels their passion for life and drives them to pursue their goals.This vital energy has been suppressed by societal pressures that seek to abolish traditional masculine traits, portraying them as toxic and outdated.In this progressive world, such suppression can create a sense of powerlessness, making Men feel less capable of asserting their identity.As a result, many struggle to find their voice, trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and conformity.This not only affects their personal lives but also their relationships and contributions to society.Reconnecting with your masculine energy is essential to reclaim your strength, assert your individuality, and live authentically in a world that seems increasingly challenging to navigate.
The types of Men who thrive working with me are:
Young Adults Seeking Direction and Purpose: Emerging professionals or students who are unsure of their next steps and need mentorship to align their passions with their long-term goals.
Parents Seeking Mentorship for Their Sons: Parents who want to provide their sons with strong role models, guidance in character development, and support in becoming responsible, confident young men.
Holistic Thinkers Who Want to Integrate Masculinity for Success: People interested in a balanced approach that combines mental, emotional, spiritual, physical, and professional growth, ensuring both personal well-being and career success.
Men Navigating Major Life Transitions: People seeking clarity, support, and guidance during significant life changes such as career shifts, relocations, or personal transformations.
Open-Minded Individuals Committed to Personal Growth: People who embrace new ideas, value self-awareness, and are dedicated to continuous personal and professional development.
People Looking to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs: Individuals who are ready to break through mental barriers and take ownership of their lives by addressing insecurities, fears, or negative patterns.
Together, we will identify the key areas in your life that are holding you back. By uncovering the root causes of these challenges, I can develop tailored solutions that will enable you to confidently thrive in harmony with the rest of your life.
I am the man in the shadows, operating behind the scenes to empower you to perform at your highest level.My approach is stark and uncompromising—I don’t deal in shades of grey.When you engage with me, you’re getting my full commitment.Your success and personal development become my top priority, and I will do whatever it takes to ensure you thrive.
These are the Five Core Realms of Masculinity that I specialise in:
strength of character
Your Strength of Character is what ultimately defines you as a Man. It represents the values you hold and the code you live by. By developing your Strength of Character you will experience the following:
Deep Self-Belief & Authenticity
Clarity of Purpose & Direction
Mental Toughness
Larger Risk Tolerance
A Sense of Meaning, Purpose, & Fulfillment
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Self-Doubt
Meaningful Responsibility
Complete control over your Emotions
A Life Free from Bad Habits and Addictions
In the modern world where most Men compromise their integrity for money and social validation, Men with Strength of Character possess courage and remain steadfast in their beliefs, never succumbing to the progressive will of society.These Men have an unshakable commitment to doing what is right, irrespective of external pressures or trends.This empowers Men to rise above the moral decay of society, becoming beacons of Light.It is the foundation upon which a Man builds his legacy, leaving a lasting impact for future generations to emulate...
physical Prowess
Physical strength and capability command respect and influence to this day, and it is a foundational element of masculinity.
From a primitive perspective, the strongest and most physically capable Men were seen as the most admirable and worthy of respect. They occupied the top of the social hierarchy, enjoying access to the most desirable Women.In order to fulfil your masculine potential you must:
Develop a well-rounded and hyper-functional physique
Enhance your Combat Effectiveness
Promote Health & Vitality in the body
Spiritual Evolution
Spiritual Evolution means to nurture a profound connection with yourself, Nature, and the Divine.It's a journey of self-discovery, Faith, and Understanding the world around you.By pursuing spiritual development you can attain:
Deep Self-Awareness
Inner Peace
Wisdom
Gratitude
Connection with something greater than yourself
physical presence
Your physical presence is how you present yourself to the world.
By improving your overall image you will master the following:
Body language that authentically reflects your masculine essence.
Optimise your attractiveness by enhancing your natural strengths and neutralising any weaknesses.
Craft a wardrobe and style that embodies your authentic self.
Find your true resonant voice that compels others to listen.
In mastering these elements, you will develop an aura that naturally draws people to you and opens doors to new opportunities.
women
Masculine and feminine energies are two sides of the same coin; you cannot have one without the other. They represent two ends of a spectrum, working in harmony to create balance and wholeness. To fully embody your highest masculine energy, it is essential to understand and integrate the feminine energy as well.Without this understanding, you may find yourself lost or isolated, struggling to connect with the Women in your life.By learning how to engage with the feminine energy, you develop emotional intelligence and effective communication skills—qualities that will enhance all of your interactions and relationships with Women.Recognising the importance of these dynamics enables you to operate at your highest masculine potential, leading with confidence and authenticity.
Clarity Workshop
In this session, come prepared with up to three well-considered questions (prioritised in order of importance) that, if answered, would change your life.We will then work through these questions and dive deeply into the underlying problem, and produce actionable steps that you can take to move you forward.Most of my clients begin here, finding clarity and value that naturally lead into deeper mentorship with me afterwards.
90 Minutes: €220
Location: Tivat, Montenegro OR worldwide via Zoom
Pocket Mentor
For those who prefer a text-only approach, the Pocket Mentorship is your personal, on-demand adviser—right in your pocket.Think of me as a digital genie with unlimited wishes; any questions you have about personal growth, Strength of Character, Physical Prowess, Women, Relationships, Physical Presence, or self-improvement in general, just ask, and I’ll be there with answers and guidance.
Per Month: €220
Service: Exclusive 24/7 access to text me via Telegram
Personal Adviser
For those of you looking for a more intimate experience, As your Personal Adviser, I will work closely with you to cultivate your own unique masculinity and self-mastery.Your probelms become my problems, and your personal growth becomes my priority.I limit my clientele for this service to no more than three individuals at a time, to ensure that I can give my full dedication and commitment to each client I work with.
Per Month: €999
One 90 Minute Session per week (flexibile)
Exclusive 24/7 access via Telegram
Spalding brothers 3 day immersive experience
Health, Wellness, Masculinity, Natural Living
1-on-1 rapid personal growth experience with the Spalding Brothers in Tivat, Montenegro.We host countless Men from all walks of life to stay with us and experience a completely one-of-a-kind lifestyle that we have consciously curated for our health and personal growth.Men immerse themselves in our Way of life, a Way that has given us unshakeable confidence and immense self belief, knowing exactly who we are and where we are going in life.Our mission is to instil this same confidence in the next generation of Men, so they can lead meaningful and fulfilling lives that they love and continue to get stronger, healthier, more attractive, more confident, and more successful with each passing year.If you, your son, or any young Man you know is lacking direction, clarity, and purpose in his life, send him to us and he will leave a transformed Man.To find out more about the other half of the Spalding Brothers, you can visit Brandons website here.
what you can expect
Accommodation & Food
Intensive 1:1 Coaching on Training, Holistic Health, Self-Inflicted Adversity, Martial Arts, Dance, and Other Forms of Self-Improvement
who this is for
Young Men Seeking Direction, Clarity and Purpose: Men who are unsure of their next steps and are looking for inspiration and guidance on the path they should take in life.
Young Men Dedicated to Their Personal Growth: Men (aged 16-25) who are committed to their personal development and want to unlock their highest potential.
Young Men Seeking a Different Life Path: Men who are not fully content with their currently trajectory, the life they lead and the world around them, who deep down feel called and destined to be more than what they are becoming.
Parents Seeking Mentorship for Their Sons: Parents who want to provide their sons with strong role models, guidance in character development, and support in becoming responsible, healthy, confident young men.
your commitment
Engagements range from one day intensives to Retreats lasting up to 5 days, with corresponding fees from £500 to £3,500 respectively.
Accepted payment methods include Cash, Cryptocurrency, Direct Bank Transfer, and Gold.
Personal Masculinity Mentorship
I am dedicated to serving Men as a collective, and I believe that my services should be accessible to all Men who are prepared to listen.Therefore, to ensure that my services are accessible while reflecting the commitment required for meaningful growth, I have established the following flat rate structure that requires an equal financial commitment from all clients.
Fee Structure: 5% of your annual salary before tax for one month of mentorship.For example, if your annual salary is $120,000, your investment for my services will be $6,000.Minimum Salary: $50,000 per year / $2,500 for one month of mentorship.
If you are under 25 and cannot afford the minimum payment, but are still eager to learn, I encourage you to apply.In such cases, we can discuss a commitment of proportional value that reflects your dedication to the mentoring process.My goal is to make my mentorship available to those who are truly dedicated to self-improvement.
This is a collection of insights drawn from my experience advising Men across multiple realms of life:I could share my testimonials, but I'd rather let my work speak for itself. Testimonials are useful for those who prefer external reassurance to make decisions. However, I understand that high-level individuals prefer to assess the value directly and make their own judgment. I know, because that's what I do.
1. Contact
If you're interested in working with me, please submit the following form.
2. details
Depending on the service you're interested in, I will then send you a confidential application form that will give me the information I need to see how I can best serve you, along with my availability so we can schedule an initial consultation.
3. meet
The purpose of this consultation is to:1. Get to know each other and see whether we are aligned.2. Discuss where you are now, where you would like to be, and ultimately, how I can help you get there.
4. payment
All compensation is paid prior to the first session following our initial consultation.What I offer is not for the faint of heart. Don't make this decision lightly.